Recent TSE Emails

As we mourn the murders by Hamas in Israel and pray for the safe return of hostages, we share the anxiety caused by having loved ones in Israel and are concerned with our safety at home.  Our primary concern continues to be the safety of our children, members, and staff.

I want to reassure you that we continue to work closely with our partner organizations, including, but not limited to the Jewish Federation, FBI, Manalapan Police, and the Secure Community Network. For those that are unfamiliar with the Secure Community Network, it was created to ensure the safety, security and resiliency of the Jewish community in North America. Through its operations center and Duty Desk, SCN provides timely, credible threat and incident information to both law enforcement and community partners, serves as the community’s formal liaison with federal law enforcement and coordinates closely with state and local law enforcement partners. 

We participated in a meeting today that, included FBI Director Wray and the Secure Community Network, to bring Jewish organizations up to date on the threat level for Jewish people and institutions in the United States, and specifically the latest information on the “Day of Rage” information circulating on social media.  Former Hamas leader Khaled Meshaal called for Muslims and supporters to gather around the world and protest on Friday.

There is currently no known threat in the United States related to this declaration.  The FBI emphasized that it was used to create panic through social media.  The FBI and Secure Community’s intelligence indicates that it was intended to encourage protests (and counter-protests).  We were encouraged to not use social media as a reliable information resource.

Regardless, all Jewish synagogues, schools, and other organizations are in a heightened level of alert. The FBI’s concern in that the rallies and propaganda on social media will provide an excuse or encourage other hate groups, that are active in the United States, to commit violence.  Again, there is no specific threat against any specific Jewish organization at this time.

Jewish Organizations were encouraged to use this situation to review how current safety protocols.  As recommended, we continually review the security practices we have in place to make sure that we are responsive to the current situation.  While I can’t share all of our security practices, you may notice some changes, including:

• The level of armed security at the temple is constantly reviewed so that we can be responsive to the current threat level. In addition, the Manalapan Police Department will have an increased presence at Shaari Emeth.
• There will be some changes outside of the building, including the removal of trash receptacles and other items that can be thrown through doors and windows, and vehicle traffic will not be allowed on the brick walkway for any reason.  A temporary barrier has been put in place until permanent bollards are installed.
• You may see less information about Temple events on social media. Please pay attention to emails and our website for this information.

In addition to the concern caused by the “Day of Rage” rumors on social media, we were encouraged to give attention to current cyber security concerns.  There has been an increased level of swatting (where people create panic by making 911 calls from a fake phone number, to cause panic, and phishing that tricks individuals into sharing personal information.  Please be careful:  Do not open emails that don’t seem Kosher; and do not open attachments on emails when you are not expecting them or are from unknown sources.  More information can be found here.

Most importantly, if you see something, say something.  If something doesn't seem right to you, please tell our security guard or any staff member.  Our primary concern is keeping Temple Shaari Emeth a safe and secure place to learn, pray, sing, and do good things.  Please contact me with any questions or specific concerns.

L'shalom,

Stuart Brown, Executive Director

My God ‫אלי

In this sacred moment, give us hope for Israel and her future. 
Renew our wonder at the miracle of the Jewish State.

In the name of the pioneers who made the deserts bloom - give us the tools to cultivate a diversity of Jewish expression in Israel.

In the name of our fallen soldiers - give us courage to stand up to the words and ways of zealots. Those in our own midst and those among our neighbors.

In the name of Israeli inventors who have amazed the world with their innovations – help us apply the same ingenuity to finding a path to peace.

In the name of all these individuals - grant us the strength to conquer doubt and despair in Israel.

Replacing doubt with action.
Replacing despair with hope.

And let us say: Amen.
from Anat Hoffman, Executive Director Israel Religious Action Center

What We Can Do

What We Can Do

Special Guest Speaker at Sukkot Family Service

Longtime community member Louis Frankenthaler is coming to speak this Friday at the Sukkot Family Service about his work with the Israel Religious Action Center (IRAC) and what's happening now in Israel with respect to judicial reform. 

Sukkot Week Activities

Simchat Torah

Good Things to Do

Each year, Temple Shaari Emeth’s College Youth Committee works diligently to keep your college-age children connected to our community. We send Judaica gifts, Temple mail, interesting articles, and more throughout the year, to remind them of their family back home.

Please register your college-age students
​​​​​​​ ​​​​​​​(under 23 years of age) TODAY!

Please contact Jenine Tankoos with questions
or to volunteer with the committee.

A new registration is needed, even if you signed up last year.
Please submit a form for each child.  Thank you.

If you would like to make a donation to the College Youth program, but are not signing up a college student, please click here. Thank you.

Dear  {{first_name}},
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On a recent Friday night and on Facebook, we asked our community the following question: What is the first word/phrase that comes to mind when you think of Temple Shaari Emeth? As you can see in the graphic, the answers were diverse and wide ranging, representing the multitude of ways TSE meets the needs of our congregation. 

Our Temple is committed to supporting our community in every stage of life, from joyous Brit Milahs to educational opportunities for our Renaissance learning groups.  As we look ahead to this upcoming new year, our goal is to make this Jewish experience available to every person in our vibrant community. In order to do so, we rely on your continued support as dues alone do not cover all of our operating expenses. 

With your partnership, we can:

• Develop top-tier interactive and educational experiences at the Early Learning Center and Religious School
• Provide a safe environment for our congregation and guests with increased security
• Sustain our vibrant and diverse community
• Provide families with learning opportunities to explore Jewish life and celebration
• Maintain and beautify our Temple’s facilities 
• Pursue the ideals of Tikkun Olam through our social justice work
• Ensure that every family can be a part of our community, regardless of financial means

 
Your gift allows us to accomplish more than what we can with dues alone. This year, we hope to have the entire congregation participate in our Annual Appeal. Can we count on your support of Temple Shaari Emeth? 
 
To make a gift to our Annual Appeal, please click here, or respond to this letter with your pledge or gift. If you have any questions please don't hesitate to reach out to Stuart Brown, Executive Director, sbrown@shaariemeth.org or 732/462-7744.  Shana Tovah and we wish you a healthy and happy new year.

L'Shalom,

Fabian Burstyn, President   

Rabbi Melina Panken

Together, we can ensure a Jewish future for generations to come.

Kaity Francese to Adam Aptaker 
Married on September 9, 2023

Adam is the son of Sharon and Jeff Aptaker 

Danielle Feinstein to Ross Kitsis 
Married on September 3, 2023
Niagra-on-the-Lake, Ontario, Canada

Danielle is the daughter of Vivian and Steven Feinstein 

Selichot Block Party ON - RAIN or SHINE - Followed by Torah Cover Dedication and Service 

Wood-fired Pizza, (Hard) Cider Tasting, Honey Tasting, Apples & Honey, Personal Confessions, Learning with the Rabbi 

Toddler and Children Activities
Apples & Honey with Rabbi Falco, Apple Printing with Miss Lori and more.

Toddler Playland and Giant Slide
(weather permitting)

and the music by
​​​​​​​ the wonderful Cantor Wally

With great sadness we share that Michael Elman, brother of TSE member Liz Feldman, passed away yesterday, September 2nd.  In addition to Liz, Michael is survived by his loving parents, Stanley and Natalie Elman, his sister, Susan, and his children Gabriela, 23, Isabella, 22, and Rebecca, 18.

The funeral service will be at 11:00 a.m. on Tuesday, September 5th, at Bloomfield-Cooper Jewish Chapels, 44 Wilson Ave 527 N, Manalapan.

Shiva will be held at the home of Liz and Rob, 21 Walden Court, 
Old Bridge, following the funeral until 8:00 p.m. on Tuesday, and 12:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Wednesday. There will be a Shiva Minyan at 6:30 p.m. each evening.

Donations can be made to the American Diabetes Association, the National Kidney Foundation or Temple Shaari Emeth.

May God console those who mourn in Zion, Jerusalem and throughout the world

Are you ready for the High Holy Days?

Visit www.shaariemeth.org/hhd

Please consult the  service schedule  for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur service locations.  The Erev Rosh Hashanah and Second Day Rosh Hashanah will be held at Temple Shaari Emeth, while most other services will be at Marlboro High School, 95 N Main St, Marlboro.  Services will also streamed live for those who prefer to worship from home.

In order to create a safe environment we will be putting certain protocols in place.  All services are available in-person for TSE members or guests who are family members of TSE members.

Please click here to let us know which services you plan on attending.

We are making a limited number of tickets available to non-members who would like to attend the Yizkor Service. Click here to reserve tickets (non-members only).

Everyone is welcome to watch livestreams of all services.

Click to reserve book(s) if you would like to have as part of your livestream service experience.

Click to volunteer as an usher during services.


For those TSE/TRT members who are either looking to attend services elsewhere or a looking to have others attend our services (that are members of other congregations), please complete the following: Click for Reciprocity Request
 
Please complete the following if you would like to have a loved one listed in our Memorial Book:  Click for Memorial Book

CORRECTION: SHIVA MINYAN WILL BE AT 8PM on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday evening.  (Original email was 7pm)


It is with sadness we share Hillary Gross, wife of David Gross, passed away yesterday. 

Funeral is  August 7th at Bloomfield Cooper in Manalapan at 11:00am. 

Shiva will be Monday after the interment, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday 5:00-9:00 with Minyan at 8:00pm each night, at Susan and David Sobin, 
7 Chesterfield Drive, Jackson.

Donations can be made to  American Cancer Society, American Kidney Fund or Rabbi Panken's Discretionary Fund.

May God console those who mourn in Zion, Jerusalem and throughout the world

It is with sadness we share Heather Bari Gottlieb, daughter of Bruce and Carol Gottlieb, passed away on July 30th. 

There will be a memorial service on Thursday, August 3 @ 11am at Bloomfield Cooper in Englishtown. 

Shiva will be at the home of Bruce and Carol, 1 Caufield Court, Freehold (the Riviera Community; for GPS directions put in 176 Jackson Mills Road)
Thursday after the service with Minay at 7pm, Friday from 12-6 and Sunday from 12-8 with Minayn at 7pm.  

Donations can be made to  American Cancer Society.

May God console those who mourn in Zion, Jerusalem and throughout the world

Services are in the sanctuary and streams on the website, Facebook, and YouTube

6:3O PM TONIGHT
SERVICE INSIDE BECAUSE OF WEATHER FORECAST
SNOW CONES WILL BE FRESH!

NEXT WEEK

IT'S NEVER TOO EARLY

High Holy Days Information will be sent out later this month

So, what is this Shabbarbeque they keep talking about?

During July and August TSE takes our music-filled services outside (weather permitting) followed by one of our famous summer Onegs.  Shabbarbeque kicks off the Summer Shabbat Series this year.  There is no cost and we'll have hamburgers, hot dogs and all of the fixings.  All we ask is that you REGISTER ; so that we can make sure that there is enough for everyone.

In addition to the special Oneg, we'll have giant connect four, gaga, super Jenga .........  Join us for for a spiritual, meaningful service and enjoy a nice summertime dinner with us.

Scroll down to register for Shabbarbecue

Services are in the sanctuary and streams on the website, Facebook, and YouTube

This Week

One Week Away! - Register Now

It is with sadness we share that Shirley Koopersmith, sister of Carl Rosencrown and sister-in-law of Ruth Rosencrown, passed away at 96 years young.   

May God console those who mourn in Zion, Jerusalem and throughout the world